haha funny

As soon as I published my last blog with "addicted" in the title, different blogger sponsered website links to drug rehabs popped up! haha

I'm definately addicted...

to coffee! I'm sure your not surprised. Like any good addict I've always told myself that I can quit whenever I want and not look back. I have actually tried it and switched to black tea but "my precious" as I call it, drew me back in. This morning my addiction became ever so clear when I was waiting for my first cup at Starbucks this morning. (Yes, I know Starbucks is the devil but darn it, its the only one close by with a drive thru. Like other Americans I need things fast because I'm always rushing around like a madwoman) Ok, I place my order for a venti Americano. Side note: And that's another aspect of myself that I discovered: the coffee drink I order reflects the mood I'm in and the day that I'll have. For example- this morning, venti Americano (3 espresso shots in water) means I need a major kick in the butt to get me going for a busy day. Grande soy vanilla latte means I got enough sleep last night and want to start off the day slow and enjoy my day. Grande chai latte means that I need a sugar high which usually indicates I'm going to see people or have to present something at work. Chai=craaaazy Katy.
Anyways, back to my story. I placed my order and for some reason the line was especially slow this morning so my impatience self kicks in. And since its the morning (not a morning person) and I haven't had coffee yet the side effects kick in: anger, frustration, head ache, slight stomach cramps, headache, abdominal bleeding (haha just kiddinng on the last one). And then, as soon as the annoying Starbucks employee stops trying to make small talk with me in the morning hands me my cofee--ahhh sigh of releif. Just to have it in my hands. I hold the hot cup in my hand and am assured by its mere presence. I sip it slowly, enjoying each drop. :)

Another one bites the dust

Last night David and I had our friends Emily and Matt Murphy over for dinner because they are leaving Friday to move back home to Maine. They have lived here a year longer than us and finally got so homesick that they've decided to move home. Of course being around Emily, who is obviously excited about seeing her family and talks about all the stuff she'll soon be doing with them, really makes me miss my family. I try to listen to her and not be discouraged myself. Emily has a younger sister who just started college so she wants to be there to help, she misses her parents, the weather, fresh water without crocodiles, and old friends. And its hard to listen to because it brings up memories for me.
They were also good friends to us. We used to go to the beach together, our dogs all played together. (Poor Roman is losing his 2nd girlfriend in a year) They were also our first friends to do Friday card night with us. We used to play cards on Fridays every other week. I met Emily when I worked at Everglades University. Living here has only been hard in that there are so many people that we've met and become close to, and then move away. I'm not kidding, there's probably been at least 10 friends of ours that have moved away within the year and a half we've lived here. I don't really know what it is, the heat, the average age of the population here, but its hard to see more friends go every year. Makes it even harder to have a positive attitude about pursuing new friends as well, since there's a chance they'll move away anyways. Maybe there's like a 2 year cut off for sanity here in Sarasota. That means we have about 6 months to figure out how we feel. But I think its all about your attitude and perception about the place you live. As my mother always said, "hapiness is a choice". There's beauty everywhere and even though it may not be as comfortable as home, it still has the possibility to be your home. Most of my old friends are all over the globe right now, which makes it easier I guess in not feeling your missing out on so much. But it definately has me thinking, and praying.

Breaking News: New book by J.R.R. Tolkien to be released in May (06.01.09)

HarperCollins is to publish a new book by the late Lord of the Rings author J R R Tolkien. The Legend of Sigurd and Gudrun, edited and introduced by Tolkien’s son Christopher, will be published in hardback in May 2009.
The Legend of Sigurd and Gudrun FAQ - for all latest info on the new Tolkien book

The previously unpublished work was written while Tolkien was professor of Anglo-Saxon at Oxford University during the 1920s and '30s, before he wrote The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings. The publication will make available for the first time Tolkien’s extensive retelling in English narrative verse of the epic Norse tales of Sigurd the Völsung and the Fall of the Niflungs.

AND I JUST BOUGHT IT!! If your a J.R.R Tolkien fan you've got to pick one up!

I want this!

Main Entry: life
Part of Speech: noun
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Annoyed

So I don't know if its part of life's maturity process but I just feel more and more annoyed with things. Maybe its just this week but I have to say small things have started to get on my nerves. Now this is strange because I consider myself a laid back person...most things don't even bother me. So why now in life? Here's a few things that I have been recently annoyed about...
-Old people. Not the sweet, grandma type that we all know and love. But the old cranky mean type that like to cut you off without looking in their mirrors or drive 40 miles UNDER the speed limit while getting onto the highway...ARRGGG and I have to say in Florida you can't go a block without running into one either. Sorry granny, this is not YOU of course.
-Getting up early. I don't know if your a morning person or not but its soo difficult for me to wake up early. I thought I could do it since in high school I used to get up at like 5 am to open Kennedy Coffee with Jessa. But David and I are now carpooling since we have one car and he has to be at work by at least 7:15. So that means that we have to take showers, iron our clothes, walk the dogs, eat breakfast, guzzle coffee by 6:50 to get to work by 7:15. I hear it gets better the more you do it but I don't know if that applies to me.
-People that criticize church. I cant take it anymore! I have people in my life that say they don't like religion and start prattling off the history of opression in the Christian church/The Crusades/crapola and I feel like a broken record saying back, "Its not about religion, its about a relationship." I guess I'm the type of person people feel they can be honest with but hey, slow it down, and try it at leat once, then you can knock it all you want. But at least try. I don't criticize corned beef cause hey- I've never tried it.
-When people smoke around me. I don't care if people smoke, I used to. Its a bad habit but whatever, its your choice. But when they chain smoke in my face without any consideration to turn your head so I don't smell like an ashtray later annoys me. Please, if your going to smoke go right ahead, but please be curteous.
- The media REALLY annoys me. I can't even watch the news anymore, CNN or FOX without rolling my eyes. Its so out of control. These days its more about the font than it is about the integrity of the news. And global news is a joke. Always negative. David and I have a joke where if we do watch the news it always runs in a 3then 1 pattern. 3 bad peices of news for every 1 peice of good news. Watch and see. I think our country's mental recession comes from watching too much news and not really learning anything of substance.
Ok, so perhaps I am cynnical. Maybe because I got up early this morning and am only half way through my cup of coffee. After the first cup life seems to come more into focus. Blah I'm done.

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Family time!!

I have to say I love family time. I'm such a sucker for it. David's parents, David and Debbie came to visit us for this past week and it was so fun! I mean, they aren't like my parents who fall asleep as soon as the sun goes down, they were actually hard to keep up with! We went out to eat, made Mahi dinners, went to Ray's games, went to the beach, watched sunsets, went shopping, toured some homes....and the list goes on. I was amazed to see them so active, I mean compared to my parents! And we talked. and talked. and talked. And I loved it! Talking to people who know you can be compared to nothing else. It was sincerely refreshing.
We got ice cream nearly every night, watched movies, I mean it was fantastic! Its so amazing to have a peice of home here in Sarasota. And then you realize just how much you do actually enjoy your city. Its more fun hosting other people and you hear yourself describing directions and you think-yeah I really do know this place! Where all the cool places are to eat, where the best views of the sunset are, most delicious margheritas, where to find the most shells. And it hits you- THIS IS HOME.

Guilty guilterston

The title is, by the way, my nickname. I called in sick to work today because I have some serious cramps and nausea today from lovely miss come-once-a-month. I mean, I could barely get out of bed, I feel like I need a wheelchair bad. So I tough it out, take a shower, get dressed, go to work and then realize- OUCH I can't walk this hurts so bad. So I decide to hey with it I'm going back home. Call my boss, she says is fine. But still, here I am in bed relaxing, feeling better now that I'm horizontal, but I still feel guilty. Never called in sick. But still guilty. I hate that feeling...

Why I do what I do

For those of you who haven't had the recent scoop on my life I am now working as a Family Support Worker for Healthy Families Florida. My job is to initiate and maintain long term relationships with families through a home visiting program that links families with the community, provides necessary resources, as well as the latest and greatest parenting and safety information. Many of our families are first time parents and basically want more training on how to be a better parent. We have some awesome parent and child bonding activities (even prenatally) that help initiate the relationship early on. We hope that through our efforts we lesson the occourance of child and abuse and neglect. I basically help moms and dads fall in love with their babies! What could be better?
Here's a link to Healthy Families America website if you want more info:
http://www.healthyfamiliesamerica.org/home/index.shtml
Also, here's a portion of a recent article published that reminds me why I do I what I do.
Important News For Florida’s Young Children….

Key Indicators Show Florida Is No Place For Children – The Lawton Chiles Foundation issues a press release indicating how Florida’s children are faring worse than ever before. Among the evidence:

Florida now ranks 50th in overall child well-being.
Florida has the highest rate of uninsured children of any state-more than twice the median rate.
Florida has one of the highest juvenile incarceration rates across the country, with more than 70 percent of youth in custody for non-violent offenses, higher than the national average.

Florida lags behind the country in much of its pre-K programs. Early prevention is key!~ OK I'll stop preaching, just wanted to share.

Amazing long memorial day weekend

I just have to say I really enjoyed my Memorial Day weekend. Besides sleeping for an entire day (and yes I really did that) I feltl like we made the most of our 3 day weekend. At first we attempted to plan a big beach BBQ with friends but were told by mr fancy pants weather man that we'd be under a tropical storm watch. Oh but when the weekend rolled around there wasn't a single drop of rain! Thanks. But we scrambled to the beach on Saturday, played frisbee, and then bbqed at a friends house that night with margheritas & mosquito (I've got my friends hooked on that game!) I felt good about the quality time wespent with the puppies. As any of you dog owners know, there isn't a more guilty feeling than kenneling your dog up before work everyday! So they got to romp and play and be wild for a day. So despite crazy unpridictable Florida weather it was an amazing weekend.

Have you lost your mind???

Watching tv this week I've been harassed as usual by a barrage of commercials and advertisements.(Luckily I have DVR for my favorite shows) Clothes, food, make up, furniture...CRAP basically. I am especially annoyed by all the commercials made for women. Are we really so easily influenced? Anyways I was flipping through the channels and saw a bit of the Entertainment channel that shamelessly stalks celebrities going about their usual uselessness and relaying all the different styles and expensive clothing they're wearing. Necklaces, hats, shoes, sunglasses. I really feel sorry for the celebrities or actors that actually have any intelligence, must be embarassing to be kjnown for the type of shoes you wear. Anyways, I then began to look up all the popular or seasonal fashion items and was shocked, dismayed, angered, annoyed, nauseated at the useless CRAPOLA that people actually pay for: **Oh and I love how the phrase most of these companies use to sell their products is "Nothings says I love you more than..." when you waste a lot of freaking money!!!!

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My morning

Wake up late, snooze the alarm 5 times.
Skip shower, hope I can pull off day old hair.
Let my puppies out which is basically like letting wild pigs out of a cage.
Give them water bc I'm nice like that.
The dogs drag me out the doors like raging bulls, Roman drinks too much water and pukes in the middle of the road...then tries to eat it. Embarassing...
While pulling Roman away from puke Lily runs through the wet morning grass/mud and looks homeless now. Glad I gave her a bath yesterday.
Make coffee, need coffee for brain to function.
Eat a burnt bagel.
Kiss my husband goodbye & say a silent prayer that he's carpooling so I can stay at home a bit longer bf work.
Watch the news & now feel depressed.
Read my Bible, feeling good again.
Kennel the dogs.
Clean up pee in the kitchen.
Head to work.
Gotta love Mondays.

Made me laugh

The beast!

Sweet, I'm going to try to publish this from my phone & see if it works! I think it would be easier to post things from my phone bc I never remember things long enough to write them! Anyways, I wanted to post these pictures of Roman, my American pit bull terrier. I still crack up when I see people on the street see him and cross to the other side or comment as they approach him, 'is he nice?'. It's because as I'm walking him he is wagging his tail so hardhis body waves from side to side because he wants to lick them so bad and he's less harmful than a kitten. But I guess I can understand the stigma, or more like peoples ignorance. Nonetheless Roman is our resident 'love pig' and soaks up attention. You judge how intimidating our little pit is by these pictures :)

David's look a like!!

OK so a friend commented on my facebook page the other day that David looked like a guy on American Idol named Khris Allen. I never watch American Idol but was intrigued, and looked up some pictures of him. And I actually think they do look similar! In some pictures they look really similar but in others they look nothing the same. I think Kris Allen looks like David when he was younger. So I'll post similar pictures, let me know what you think!!

The first few weeks

music is so important!

As always, when I turn to my Christian music on my iPod I can help but be swept away by Enter the Worship Circle lyrics. Everytime I listen to them they bring this humility and brokenness to my heart. Its like open the arch of the covenant and letting the Holy Spirit wash over me. If you've never heard of them download the First through Third Circle. I yeild to the Holy Spirit when I hear it. Its weird really since I've been listening to them since Heidi introduced them to me in high school. On my wedding day I made a playlist containing two of their songs. And listening to them in the background when I was saying my vows made me feel so alive!! I just wanted to say that its so important to listen to the right music. I think that the language of our souls is through music. I find that when I listen to the right music it reflects in my mood and my actions...and vice versa when I listen to bad music. I tail people when I drive...bad words come out. But when the music is both lyrically and mysically beautiful I'm transformed. Here's the lyrics from one of my favorite songs:

"I Will Bow" by Enter the Worship Circle
"Two Things Have I Heard, From The Word That You Have Spoken

that You Oh God Are Strong, And You Oh God Are Loving

I Will Not Be Shaken

I Will Bow, I Will Bow

lift My Eyes Up From The Ashes

with My Knees On The Ground...I Will Bow

One Thing Will I Seek, It's You And You Alone
i Don't Have To Fear, I Know You Are Here
i Will Not Be Moved

i Am Pouring Out My Heart To You Oh God

i Am Weak, You Are Strong

i Am Putting All My Hope In You Oh God

in You And To You And For You Alone"

25 Most Random Things

Ok ok I'll give in, I've never done this and snubbed being tagged but finally, after reading other's and how hilarious they are I will let you in on a little Katy randomness.
1. I like my name, Katy or Kathryn and I get super pissed when people misspell it. It makes me feel set apart from all the other "Katie's" who, to me, are common...Don't hate me fellow Katies...
2. I like beer, really any beer. Rolling Rock is my favorite.
3. I shamelessly watch dumb reality shows on VH1 like "I Love New York" or "Rock of Love"...and shamelessly deny watching them.
4. In the same breath, I get angry when people say shows like "I Love New York" are trashy while they watch "The Bachelor"...at least they don't marry the guy! That's even worse!
5. I totally destroy my hair...whether with hair gel, high lights, straightening...I don't care. Its my hair and it should do what I want.
6. I recently started taking a yoga class and am deathly afraid of farting while stretching.
7. I hate that I work at a restaurant. But the money is so goood and easy.
8. I drink at least three cups of coffee every morning like clock work. Can't do without it.
9. I seriously love my cat Patches. More than I should. But I can't help it.
10. I have three tatoos. And I want to get more.
11. Recently I've been eating a lot of arugula. Apparently its good for me. I think it tastes like nuts.
12. I use all natural vegan beauty products. Makes me pretty & saves some hide.
13. I miss my family a lot. If I really think about them I tear up.
14. I am proud to say to people that I have never watched an episode of "The Hills". Why should we watch the lives of useless, spoiled people?
15. I own a green Subaru Outback Sport Impreza. Its the car of my dreams.
16. I really really like the beach. The ocean...mmm scares me still but the beach is harmless and I love to lay on it for hours and hours.
17. When I look at my closet I laugh because the majority of clothes are brown or green. I dress like a tree.
18. It annoys me when people ask me to speak Chinese. So I usually say stupid sentences that just sound cool. My way of getting back at them.
19. The next language I want to learn is Russian.
20. I think of myself as a peace lover but some days I just wish I could fight people for a living...like being a boxer.
21. I really like office supplies. When I go into Office Max I'm like a kid in a candy store.
22. I seriously am in love with David. I can't imagine life without him, every day gets better in our marriage.
23. I don't know how to describe myself to people. Its like I'm part tomboy- I like beer, cigars, burgers, love sports events, I'm competitive, and play PS3...but I'm really emotional and sensitive. So what am I?
24. It took me awhile to get used to the last name Schmidt. I really was attached to Nelson. But now I say Katy Schmidt without hesitation.
25. My name backwards is Ytak Tdimhcs. I say it like "Y-tack Timicks". I think is sounds cool. Like Cherokee/Irish

Doggies!

So if you haven't heard David and I are getting two puppies in about two weeks! One is an American Pit Bull Terrier we named Roman. His mother was pregnant at a shelter and rescued by a kind lady. So we will be adopting Roman soon, he stays with his momma till he's 8 weeks old. (Oh and this has been David's dream dog) And then my dream dog- Ever since I was little and watched Disney's "Fox and the Hound" I too wanted to own a baby fox. So David and I decided to buy a Pembroke Welsh Corgi from a local breeder. The lady owns and shows horses and happens to be passionate about Corgi's as well. So we contacted her and she had a new litter, at the same age as Roman! So we picked out a little girl and have named her Lilly or Lil Fox. :)

We are getting both around Valentines Day weekend!!!!!!! I know its crazy but I wanted the puppies to grow up together and be friends, though it'll be insane for a couple of weeks with two 8 week old puppies....The pictures below are mostly of Roman because we can see him every couple of weeks because her owner lives close to us. Lily is in a town about three hours away from us so we haven't got to see her yet. So the pictures we have of her are from her breeder. She is the one on the far right on all the pictures below with a wide white stripe between her eyes. OH and we just got to see Roman a couple of days ago!!